Jun 24, 2021
There are so many taboo topics in our human society and one of them is sex. Due to stigmas attached to this topic, we never get proper sex education and that’s why we lose so many benefits that we can reap from our sexual energy. We often have sex from surface level- that is ego-based or more focused on performative sex- and neglect all of its other great benefits. But the truth is that there is so much that we can experience as men and women with our bodies rather than just having surface sex.
Sex is basically energy that impacts every sector of our lives. It is a creative energy that creates the kind of life that you want to create for yourself. When you focus your sexual energy on your goal/purpose you create something great.
In today's podcast, we have Dominique D’Vita with us who is a Tantra coach. She teaches sex secrets and ancient techniques to have a better sex experience. Dominique works with individuals and couples to improve their sex life to improve their life. She is passionate about empowering both men and women to tap into their full potential, experience the healing properties of pleasure, and experience more intimacy and connection with their partners. In today's podcast, she is explaining many Tantra practices and tips with us so that we could enjoy our sex life in a more meaningful way.
She says that Tantra is not just about sex, it is an ancient tool for transformation and live an empowered life. It regulates your emotions and develops self-love and a healthy relationship with yourself and with your partner.
Dominique is encouraging you to channelize your sexual energy toward your goal/purpose in life. When you work on your goal, you need full energy so that you could focus all your energy on that. But when you perform sex your energy depletes, which means it drains your creative energy. Statistics say that Sex impacts men and females differently. After sex males lose their creative energy and fall asleep while females feel more energetic and chatty. Females lose energy due to pregnancy and menstruation. So, if men ejaculate frequently their energy depletes and if men don’t ejaculate frequently then they can have more energy to tap into their full creative potential. Remember that there is nothing wrong with sex but doing it frequently is a problem.
Moreover, she says that porn addiction depletes your sexual energy and it also damages your real sex experience. So to re-build that energy reserve -that you have lost by watching porn- you have to stop watching and masturbating excessively. And for that, you have to work on your inner life….. When we work on our inner self, when we do our inner healing then we have better relationships with our lover, our friends, kids, and co-workers. Just improving your inner life improves everything around you. Improving your sex life increases your confidence and magnetism and ultimately helps you with your goal/purpose.
Moreover, Dominique says that a lot of times we have big goals, big dreams, and visions but not everyone around us sees the world the way we see it. Sometimes our relatives put their limitations on us. But remember that “other people’s opinions about you don’t matter”.
Dominique D’Vita is explaining all that information in detail, so tune in and enjoy this informative podcast till the end.
What You Will Learn from this Episode:
The Episode Timeline:
[00:00]– Introduction of today’s guest, Dominique D’Vita.
[00:57]- What is Tantra?
[02:31]- What should be the frequency of ejaculation in men?
[04:27]- How does she coach her clients?
[07:05]- Working on your inner self improves everything around you.
[07:50]- How sex impacts males and females differently?
[10:30]- Why she decided to be a sex coach?
[12:56]- Self-healing through pleasure.
[15:21]- Science of using sexual energy to empower yourself.
[17:20]- Porn addiction and its effects.
[18:55]- Benefits of stopping frequent ejaculations.
[21:25]- Empowering men by getting rid of porn.
[22:57]- Dominique sharing a funny experience with one of her clients.
[25:05]- Faulty parenting and programming of society.
[28:21]- Failure of Alcoholic Anonymous and power of words.
[32:23]- Look inside of you, not outside. Self-love and having a relationship with yourself.
[35:17]- Not valuing own-self.
[37:35]- Simplify things instead of being sophisticated.
[39:52]- Bothering yourself for other people's opinions about you.
[42:33]- Why only females are Dominique’s target audience online?
[46:18]- Importance of sexual healing for men.
[47:46]- Duration of orgasm in males versus females.
[49:30]- Dominique’s first orgasm experience.
[53:10]- Why so many females don’t have an orgasm?
[56:57]- Tips to achieve orgasm.
[01:01:23]- Creating intimacy and connection with your partner.
[01:03:03]- Transmuting sexual energy.
[01:03:37]- What you need to do to create deep intimacy and romance with your partner.
[01:04:14]- Love language.
[01:07:44]- How the success of a business depends upon having a great family life.
[01:07:57]- Dominique’s contact details.
Golden Nuggets from Episode:
Dominique’s Website & Social Media Handles:
Twitter: Dominique D’Vita
Corey Berrier’s Website & Social Media Handles:
Facebook: @Corey Berrier
Twitter: @ successfullifepodcast
Linkedin: Corey Berrier- Successful Life Podcast
YouTube: Successful Life Podcast