The patterns affecting our relationships, careers, and recovery often began long before we recognized them.
In this episode of The Successful Life Podcast, Corey Berrier explores how childhood dysfunction, neglect, addiction, people-pleasing, and the fear of abandonment can shape the decisions we make as adults. When we don’t communicate what we need, resentment builds—and we may begin blaming the job, relationship, or other person for something we never addressed honestly.
Corey shares how recovery and the 12 Steps helped him recognize his own patterns, find his voice, and become willing to have uncomfortable conversations. He also discusses an unresolved financial amends he has carried for years—and why cleaning up his side of the street matters, regardless of how he feels about the other person.
Recovery isn’t about becoming perfect. It’s about becoming honest, taking responsibility, making things right, and learning to speak up before resentment takes over.
In this episode:
• How childhood experiences influence adult behavior
• Why people-pleasing can lead to resentment
• Learning to ask for what you need in relationships and at work
• The danger of relying on verbal promises
• Why uncomfortable conversations are necessary
• Selfishness versus healthy self-advocacy
• Making amends even when you dislike the other person
• Giving yourself, your parents, and your children some grace
• Why discomfort is often part of personal growth
• How the 12 Steps help uncover destructive patterns
Sometimes you have to fall off the bike, skin your knees, and experience discomfort before life gets better. Whether you’re considering sobriety or struggling in recovery, the next difficult decision could become one of the best decisions you ever make.
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